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Assalamualaikum people
So yeah I am going to be Wan's wife within 24 days
insyaAllah

I can't describe the feeling right now
24 days for God sake
masyaAllah
only HE knows what I do feel inside
May Allah eases every single thing for us
May Allah blesses this marriage here and Hereafter

insyaAllah

I just want to put every advice that I got here so that I won't lost it
I know I am gonna need it someday
hehe



" make sure he will be a good Imam. that makes marriage much easier. it is hard work. Dont believe anyone who says it is easy. But if the foundation is based on love InsyaAllah semua ok. Make sure finance ok. Sometimes this can be a very big issue especially when you first start married life. So kena banyak give and take. And yes long distance memang you have to put in extra work but it is a good reflection of how you will face any challenges. Communication is very important. Men are different species. Kena cakap direct. Hint doesnt work at all. So kena direct. So any issues, try your very best to resolve and don't go to bed angry"



" All the best elun im so happy for you two. Just an advice, manage your expectations on your soon-to-be husband, both the conscious ones and those in your subconscious one. Kalau tiba-tiba nanti rasa frustrated (which every married person will feel, sebab a couple will always discover new sides of their spouse), recount All the good things he has done for you. And be reminded that shaytan is working hard to separate you both"


Pray for us people! =D



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